“You Did Nothing”: Why I Walked Away After 30 Years of Marriage

On the surface, we were the perfect couple. Thirty years married. Three beautiful children, all grown. A home filled with memories. Neighbors saw us as steady and solid, the kind of couple others aspired to be. And yet, on the day of our 30th anniversary, I asked for a divorce.

My husband, Zack, was in shock.

“You’re divorcing me?” he asked, his voice hollow, like the wind had been knocked out of him.

“Yes,” I said, calm and resolved. “I’m divorcing you.”

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