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Because that’s what good men do. They show up. They take responsibility. They turn tragedy into love.
People ask me how I forgave Marcus. The truth is, there was nothing to forgive. He didn’t do anything wrong. He was a good man who got caught in a horrible accident, and instead of running from it, he ran toward it.
And in the process, he saved me too. He taught me that grace isn’t about deserving. It’s about showing up. It’s about loving people through the worst moments of their lives.
Last week, Marcus’s motorcycle club did a charity ride for children’s hospital trauma victims. Jake rode on the back of Marcus’s bike, wearing his honorary vest. I followed in my car, watching my son laugh and point at things, alive and whole and happy.
And I thanked God for the biker who hit my son. Because that collision—as terrible as it was—brought us Marcus. And Marcus brought us hope.
Sometimes angels wear leather vests. Sometimes they show up on motorcycles. And sometimes they save your child twice—once on the street, and once in a coma, by refusing to leave him alone in the dark.
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