I Found Out My Husband Went On A Secret 15-Day Trip With The Woman He Calls His “Work Wife.” When He Came Home, I Asked One Simple Question That Wiped The Smile Off His Face: Do You Know What Illness She Has? He Rushed To The Doctor, BUT THE TRUTH WAS ALREADY WAITING FOR HIM

Money was always tight. We split grocery bills down to the dollar. We argued about whether we could afford to order takeout twice in one week. But we were building something—a partnership, a life that felt real and earned.

We had our traditions. Every anniversary, Milo would write me a card—not just sign his name to something store-bought, but actually write. He’d list reasons he loved me, memories from the past year, promises for the next. I kept every single card in a box under our bed. On his birthday every year, I’d bake his favorite lemon cake from scratch, the recipe his grandmother had used, written on a stained index card I’d learned to decipher.

These small rituals made us who we were. Made us feel permanent.

We talked about having kids. Not immediately, but someday. When we had more space, more savings, more time. “When the time is right,” we’d say, pushing the decision into some vague future that always felt close but never quite arrived. We fantasized about buying a house eventually. Maybe in Westchester, maybe out on Long Island, somewhere with a yard and room for the children we’d have someday. A garden I’d probably kill through neglect, but would try to maintain anyway. We’d grow old together, retire to somewhere warm, become the embarrassing grandparents who gave too many gifts and spoiled everyone’s children.

That was the foundation we’d built. Eleven years of ordinary, unremarkable real life.

It wasn’t glamorous, but it was ours. It was solid.

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