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Five years later, I met Arthur. He felt like a breath of fresh air!
He was different — charming in a quieter way, not the performative one I was used to — divorced, and raising three kids. Arthur was 38, a high school teacher who loved poetry and classic cars.
Arthur was wonderfully imperfect — and I found comfort in that imperfection. We talked for hours about things that actually mattered: regrets, lessons, parenting, and the ridiculousness of middle-aged dating.
Arthur and I also had similar values and the same tired adult humor. With him, I didn’t have to perform, and for the first time in my adult life, I felt genuinely understood!
I fell into it without realizing I’d leapt.
We got married quickly.
Maybe too quickly.
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