My Husband Bullied Me over My ‘Wrinkled Face’ and Gray Hair – He Regretted It Instantly

“Maybe just a touch more makeup,” he said finally.

“You don’t want people to think I’m out with my mom.”

I stood there in our hallway, holding my purse, and I felt something inside me just collapse.

That night at the party, I excused myself and went to the bathroom.

I stood in front of the mirror and looked at myself.

At that point, I realized I hadn’t felt beautiful in months because the one person who was supposed to make me feel safe had spent all his time making me feel insecure.

When we got home that night, I suggested that maybe we should see a couples therapist to fix things between us before it was too late.

Derek actually laughed at me.

“Therapy can’t fix gravity, babe,” he said, and then he went upstairs to bed.

That line stayed in my head for weeks afterward. It played on repeat every time I looked in the mirror.

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